What is Average for Penis Size?

One of the biggest questions I get asked in the penis enlargement forums is "What is Average?" This is a question many men have thought about since the beginnings of puberty. It seems that early in puberty boys start to become confused about penis size. When in a situation, like the locker room, this obsession not only becomes inflamed but I think this is when delusions of what average size is and how they compare to the other boys they see.There has been so many men that have come to me with experiences of their youth where they saw a friends penis and thought it was huge. I am not saying that this is never "really" the case but in many of these situations boys will see a penis that is, most likely, the same size as theirs and think that it is so much bigger than theirs. There was a situation when my son came to me saying that he saw his friends penis and it looked so gigantic. This was right about the time he entered puberty. Since our relationship is completely open we had a discussion about self-view and how it relates to obsessions around the penis. He knows that much of my work is on the psychological side of sexuality and this is a blessing of my job. Anyway, after having a long discussion about puberty, how the penis develops, what things happen during puberty, what to expect with body changes, pretty much the entire gamut of male sexuality. We also discussed, in depth, Penis Dysmorphic Disorder (P.D.D.) and how this issue affects many men in later life. [P.D.D. is a disorder I named some years back to describe the mental condition where men see their penis completely different than it is]. The talk we had was a good one and my son left the discussion armed with new knowledge that will help him through the rest of his life. Funny thing is about a month after we had this discussion he was out playing with the same boy and couple of other friends. One of the kids "pantsed" the boy (Pantsed is a game where someone pulls the other kids pants down without them knowing) Ironically it was the girl of the group who pulled the boys pants down. This time around he saw the boys penis and told me that it looked tiny. The discussion we had made it possible for him to see other boys as they "really" are opposed to seeing things skewed.Men have always struggled with how their penis looks on their body.. Some men I have dealt with are naturally huge but they come to me in a deep depression because they just can't see it. When they see themselves naked they see what they "think" they should see, not what it really is. What I mean by "think" is they base their sight on negative issues of their past. Their vision has become psychologically impaired.I remember growing up. I always felt as though my penis was larger than normal and I based this on my first experience seeing another boy naked. He was much younger than me, not even in puberty, while I was about a year into puberty. Off course I looked bigger, he had not even started to grow yet. Even though this was the case it still boasted my self-view and I went through much of my life feeling large. It was not until I saw a John Holmes film that my vision of myself became skewed. I could not understand why his was so big compared to mine. It never effected me in a terrible way, it only showed me that I was not as big as I thought. This did not bother me too much because at the time I thought I could do nothing about it so I just accepted it and moved on.It was not until I found out that penis enlargement was for real that I became obsessed with my size and started to see things skewed. Today this issue no longer exists in me. I was able to defeat it through the studies I did for the men on my sites. I wrote about my fears, insecurities and dysfunction's and through this writing I was able to not only help thousands of men but I was able to help myself. Sharing awareness is one thing but sharing the pain of the road that got me to that awareness is where my healing began.I will list a few very good articles I have written on this subject and I hope you will go through and read them. They have helped me immensely.I have created a chart on average penis size based on very real, honest, data that is free of any possible error. The data collected to make this chart is based on a Lifestyles Condom survey done in the 90's. The survey was based on 3500 men who were ALL measured by staff so that no cheating could happen. I have also based this chart on user information I have gathered at my site www.mattersofsize.com. This chart is the only reliable source of average penis size. The 2nd most popular survey was the Kinsey study. The Kinsey study is based on user self measurements. Whenever a average penis size study is based on self measurement the results of the survey jump to about 1" over the results of this survey. This difference in results is consistent with every penis survey I have studied. This chart is the real deal. Please base your self-view on these results!
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